Why are we so tense all of the time? Having children can be very demanding, but it can also make you feel as if your husband is extra in your life. And, according to the study, the husband has the greatest influence on your stress levels.
It is in our nature to be concerned about everything. Birthday celebrations, teacher gifts, travel plans, family meals, and extracurricular activities. We're always looking for ways to stay on top of things. It is human nature to want to plan while also worrying about every last detail. Women. That is something we are well-known for.
Husbands, on the other hand, appear more relaxed and easygoing. They don't worry as much as we do, which I believe is one of the reasons they bother us so much. Marriage, according to some women, is a more difficult relationship than parenting. And I believe they are correct!
You might also be curious about why children act out when their mothers are present. A theory that will also explain why women are always so stressed out. Everything drama is always reserved for us!
In addition, a recent survey found that husbands stress out women more than women stress out husbands.
According to a survey of over 7,000 moms conducted by Today, the average mother rates her stress level at 8.5 out of 10, and a whopping 46 percent of women say their husbands cause more stress than their children.
According to the survey, mothers are most concerned about not having enough time in the day to complete all of their responsibilities. Three-quarters of moms with partners say they do the majority of the parenting and housework. One in every five mothers reports that not getting enough help from their spouse is a major source of daily stress.
Moms frequently complain that their children's fathers are more like big kids than equal partners. Women say mom stress is fundamentally different from dad stress, and being unable to see eye-to-eye with a partner can lead to, you guessed it, more stress.
Parenting is less stressful than marriage.
According to Hal Runkel, an Atlanta-area family therapist, the problem with all the stress is marriage, not men. Even good marriages, he claims, are stressful by nature. While marriage can be a wonderful and fulfilling experience, no lifelong commitment is likely to be perfect all of the time. And it appears to be more difficult than parenting at times.
"Marriage is a more difficult relationship than parenting," Runkel asserted. "When you combine the two, you have a recipe for stress."
This is an intriguing study that demonstrates how much stress we must deal with on a daily basis. In my case, I am an extremely emotional person (even more so after having children), and if something does not go as planned, I tend to become extremely stressed. So, how about you? Do you think your husband bothers you more than your children?
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